Resons why campus relationships won't work
For some of us these campus years are the chance to date
around, others it’s a golden opportunity to find your Juliet and Romeo who you
may end up marrying. And for others it’s just “testing the waters” players as
they are called.
Here’s a look at the most common reasons why campus relationships
don’t end up working out, just remember, every campus relationship is
different!
1.
Cheating!
- C’mon this is campus, each an everyday you wake up and find a new
pretty face which is more tempting. Once you are in campus parties you have
high chances of drinking leading to many unplanned hookups.
2.
Long Distance Relationships! – Welcome to campus
where all ladies have home boyfriends (although not all) Lots of high school
graduates remain with their high school sweethearts despite the fact that they
may be separated by hundreds of thousands of miles. Many find it hard to deal with not seeing
each other, having a relationship through a cell phone, or fighting the
temptation to cheat. Kudos to those who
make it last!
3.
Its Fun Time! – Many campus students were told
campus is about having fun nothing serious. Hence, Guys and girls alike want to
experiment, date around, and just have fun while they spend their time
here. Many decide to stop hooking up
with someone simply because they want to be single.
4.
Lack of commitment - either the guy or the girl
is just simply not that interested.
Maybe he just wants to hook up while the girl is searching for something
more. Maybe she wants an open relationship
and he doesn’t. Either way, if someone
isn’t willing to commit to you, they probably just aren’t that into you.
5.
Lack of a common ground - If you’re from Mombasa
and you plan on moving to Nairobi after graduation, and your boyfriend is from Garissa,
where does that leave you? Not on the
same page. I’ve seen it happen to a lot
of friends, where neither of them will make the commitment to move to be with
the other and the relationship just has to end.
It’s a tough call.
6.
Rumors!!- In campus friends circulate in circles
and sometimes rumors begin to circulate. possibly because of jealousy, or
possibly because they are true. Either
way, rumors are a vicious way to end a relationship. Even when rumors aren’t
true, they have a tendency of putting a lot of strain on the relationship and
can be the ultimate reason behind a breakup.(Bro, she already found out what I
did with ...)
7.
Sex- Most of the relationships in campus are
about sex, I know of people who struggle to be in a relationship just for sex.
Once you sleep with her the relationship is over. Most people stay in a
relationship just to reap benefits nothing more. Be warned girl!
Most campus goers have mastered the art of pretending to be
those lovers you've been dreaming of all your life. You'll forgive me for being
judgmental and acting like the saint I'm not, but hey, campus relationships are
a waste of time. I mean what is the point of pursuing that poor soul when you
knew very well that it isn't going to be a long term thing? Why would you want
to have ten plus boyfriends and still claim you're loyal. Save me some slack,
stop wasting your time dating in campus.
Well, there you have it, the eight most common reasons why
campus relationships don’t work out.
Good luck to all you ladies out there who are trying to make it
work! Remember, not all relationships
fail and even if yours does- it's better to have loved and lost than to have
never loved at all.
@Rexy_Mose .
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